Leaving room for the miracle.
Photo by Cameron Clark
Luck's kryptonite?
Busyness.
People who find their identity through a jam-packed schedule are rarely lucky.
To be fair, busyness is often a symptom of something deeper:
a desire to be seen as "important"
an inability to say no out of a need to have everyone like us
fear of opportunities going to someone else even if they're a good-but-not-great fit for us
fear that if we slow down we might have to face the fact that maybe the life we've built for ourselves isn't exactly the one we wanted
Lucky people have more boundaries, not fewer. They say no more often so that they have room to say yes to things that truly excite them. They are comfortable embracing a philosophy of JOMO (joy of missing out) rather than FOMO (fear of missing out). They are willing to risk not being liked by saying no. They are okay with being misunderstood for a while. They understand that your priorities do not need to be their priorities and vice versa.
Most lucky people don't plan for luck (or even believe it exists), but they do make space for it. They don't fly in to a conference for one session and then fly right back out. They stick around and talk to people. They know that "what's in it for me?" isn't always the right question to ask. They recognize that opportunities often look like work and show up through people or places they don't expect.
I call all of this "leaving room for the miracle."
Lucky people leave room for the miracle.
Originally published January 2012
Written by
LIENE STEVENS
Liene Stevens, the founder and CEO of Think Splendid, is an author, speaker, and award-winning business strategist. Armed with $2000, a healthy work ethic, and an undeserved dose of privilege, Liene bootstrapped Think Splendid from a scribble in a notebook to a successful wedding business consulting firm with a client list spanning 97 countries.
